Believe them with you heart but Watch with you eyes.

Anw, it's a F***ed up day. Suppose to be an engagement party, held in a temple.
But, what the heck, it turned out to be a "ko tai" (like those during 7th month)
When we first reached there, it was chaos everywhere. It took us quite awhile to figure out what was happening and where to go to. We realised that it was "Ji Gong's" birthday on the same day. Before we even met the couple, we were invited to "请安" with the "Ji Gong" (JG). And i saw this long queue of ppl, waiting to "请安" with JG. When it's their turn, they kneeled down before 'her' (the lady who was acting as JG). And i dunno what they told her. Whatever it is, this JG like person was seated on a chair, prayed and treated and served like a real god. The irony? Well, the deity-figures were just behind the JG. I just had to say this, She's a FAKE. I didnt see the reason to do whatever they were doing. It may be their belief, but i just thought teachers thought us to not believe and follow blindly.

The real scene came. Almost at the end of her 'show', she lifted her costume and started walking around the tables, towards people for donation. I was irritated. SERIOUSLY. I was seated near to the stage. If she had left us alone, it would had been great, cus i know i wasn't gonna give a freaking cent. Before we knew it, she came from behind, used her body weight to bang into my sister from the back. Ying ying was literally almost jerked off her chair! I was as shocked as her! JG spoke in Hokkien, she asked for money. Even it is just $1. But FCUK! If i didnt wanna give any, why would the amount matter???!!!!! Just as i guessed, my mom beside me felt obliged to throw in a few coins. She did. Just as JG turned around, i pointed middle finger at her(thou she didnt see). And i meant it. So what if that wasn't ethical? If she wasnt wearing that costume, i would have went back to her and give her a hard push and make sure she falls hard on that ground. JG was babaric, and she acted like a real babarian. Jabronie. An Ass.
But i guess, what i did was seen by my dad. Maybe even the people behind.
YingYing cried on her way out, when we left shortly. I guess she was traumatised. I would have, too. I felt lousy to see her this way. If only i reacted fast enough, such incident would have been settled with justice. My dad said told me off. He didnt think that middle finger was right thing to do. But after he knew what happen, he shouldnt think the way he did! I'm just trying to do sth for my sister. Be it the real justice or not! SHE IS MY SISTER. I WON'T SIT AND WATCH HER BEING BULLIED BY OTHERS. EVEN IF IT SHOULD COST ME MY IMAGE. With me around, NO ONE CAN LAY A SINGLE FINGER ON MY SISTER. (mark my words). So dad, after you know what had happened, you still think i'm wrong? It should have been you who do Ying Ying justice. If you were around. But you weren't. You were nowhere to be seen when all that happens and only to re-appear telling me off with that 'middle finger' incident. I'm lost for words.

Anyhow, following is a video of the "ko tai" and a girl singing, guess what, she's only 19!!!